Want to Sound More Interesting? Add More Contrasts
Contrasts are inherently engaging. Visual contrasts. Literary contrasts. Any kind of contrast. Humans are genetically programmed to notice anything conflicting or opposing.
Likability
Are You Boring People?
Boring people react seriously and stoically to everything. Admittedly, I am not an excitable person by nature. That doesn’t mean I don’t possess just as many emotions as the next guy.
You’ll Never Be Funny If You Can’t Do This
Laugh at yourself first. Yep, that’s it. Sounds simple, but it’s very hard for many people. If you’re too insecure or uptight, you’ll have a hard time making anyone laugh (even Jimmy Fallon—and he laughs at everything). Real-life Example: Jack: Wow, that’s an awesome tattoo. Jill: Thanks, my husband George actually drew it for me. …
The Two Levels of Likability
Have you spent a lot of time and money trying to be more likable? You’ve probably already learned that the efforts spent on improving your appearance, reputation, accomplishments, social skills, etc. don’t automatically result in increased likability. Likability is based on something more fundamental.
The Silly Human Technique
Develop an eye for noticing subtleties in human behavior and appearance. Talk about the idiosyncrasies of the human condition.
Over-reacting is More Entertaining
Shane Dawson has made a killing just reacting on camera. He’s created a variety of YouTube content, but one theme persists through nearly everything he’s created: his reactions are entertaining.